
Journey to Success
What's Keeping You From the Success You Deserve? Discover How to Start Today! Hi Dear, my name is Fabio, host of Journey to Success, and I'm your friend and Mindset Mentor on this journey. What do I do here? I will share stories, experiences, failures, and most importantly, what you can learn from them.
Remember, you are the architect of your life, and as such, you determine the success you want to achieve in every area. But first, you have to fail. It's not easy, and you will face many difficulties, but keep in mind that everything you go through is the necessary training to achieve your life's goals and your dreams!
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From Brokenness to Breakthrough: Confronting Your Pain as a Path to Growth
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The crack is where the light enters. This profound truth forms the foundation of our exploration into pain's transformative potential. Most of us instinctively flee from discomfort, building elaborate systems of avoidance, denial, and emotional walls. Yet what if our wounds aren't obstacles but gateways to our most authentic selves?
True maturity isn't measured by age or achievements but forged through facing what hurts. When we stop running and start asking "What is this pain teaching me?" everything shifts. We explore how avoidance becomes our shield, keeping us busy so we never sit with our wounds. We examine how denial convinces us we're fine while our bodies and souls remember everything. And we confront how fear of vulnerability builds walls that isolate us from the very connections that could heal us.
The journey from pain to power begins with radical honesty and practical steps: unfiltered journaling, professional guidance, embodiment practices like yoga, inner child healing, storytelling, and supportive community. These tools help transform suffering into wisdom. We witness this transformation through Rhian Mannings' remarkable story—after losing both her one-year-old son and husband within five days, she eventually founded a charity supporting over 1,300 grieving families. Her journey exemplifies how brokenness, when faced with courage, can become the foundation for profound purpose.
If you're carrying something heavy right now, remember: you're not weak for feeling pain—you're human. Beyond that pain lies a seed of power and unshakable maturity waiting to grow. Share your journey in the comments: what challenge led to your greatest growth? And share this episode with someone who might need these words today.
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The crack is the place where the light enters you. Hi guys, my name is Fabio from Journey to Success, and welcome. Most of us are taught to run from pain right To the night or distract ourselves until it disappears. But what if pain is not the enemy? What if it is the teacher? Pain can make us feel broken, guys, whether physical or emotional, it doesn't matter. It forces us to confront parts of ourselves we would rather ignore. And in that confrontation, you know, in the discomfort, the breakdown, the grief, lies an invitation, an invitation to grow, to evolve, to rise. So transforming pain into power is not just about reflecting back, okay, it's more about breaking through, using, of course, our strangles as fuel to become wiser, stronger, stronger and more aligned with who we truly are. So this process is the path to true maturity. You know, not the kind of maturity that comes with age guys, titles, all appearances, but the kind of maturity that is forged in fire, real maturity. You know, maturity where it's born, when we stop blaming the world and start asking all right, all right, so what are you teaching me in this situation right now? Tell me, today we're going very, very deep into the darkness, into the discomfort, and deep into the darkness, into the discomfort and finally into the light, light that only pain can show. Okay, but before to go forward, as always, please subscribe. So I know this is the right direction to lead you guys, to drive you, to guide you towards your journey to success. And let's get started right as always, towards your journey to success. And let's get started right as always.
Speaker 1:So let's discuss the common struggles people face when dealing with pain, such as avoidance, denial and fear of vulnerability. So, before we can transform pain into power, of course we have to understand how we usually deal with it, and the truth is most of us don't deal with it at all. We avoid it, we deny it. Okay, we burn it under business substance scrolling, you know. Or fake smiles, so let's talk about avoidance first. Avoidance becomes our shield. You know? Or fake smiles, so let's talk about avoidance first. Avoidance becomes our shield. You know, we stay busy, so we don't have to sit in silence with our wounds.
Speaker 1:But unprocessed pain doesn't disappear, guys. It actually plagues slowly. It shows up in our relationships, our health, our self-worth. Then we have the denial. Denial is another survival tactic. We convince ourselves we're fine, that what happened didn't really affect us. But deep down. The body remembers, the soul remembers, and the longer we deny it, the louder the pain eventually screams, Okay. Then there is the fear of vulnerability, so the belief that if we let others see our brokenness, they will reject us. So what are we going to do? We build walls, okay. We put masks, we aim for perfection instead of authenticity, and in the process, we isolate ourselves from the very connection we desire. So these responses are, of course, are human. Okay, we're human beings, so they're protective responses. But they also keep us stuck, guys, trapped in cycles of silent suffering. Okay.
Speaker 1:So the first step toward healing is not to fix the pain, guys, it is to face it. Of course, to face pain, facing pain, of course, is never easy, but it is possible. Of course it's possible and more than that, it is transformational. So let's look at how people do it. Think of someone like ofra who faced a childhood trauma, abuse, rejection. She could have let this situation define her right, but instead she did her work, she did therapy. Uh, deep self-reflection and a lifelong pursuit of healing leather to become not just successful but wise. Louis O's is a podcaster I really admire who opened up about being sexually abused as a child. So for years he masked the pain with ego and aggression, until he realized that healing meant becoming vulnerable, so that one shift changed his life, okay, and his work as well.
Speaker 1:So these stories, guys, remind us that pain doesn't have to break you. It can build you if you're willing to go through, of course. And psychologists talk about something called post-traumatic growth as well, the idea that after trauma, people can emerge with deeper empathy, clarity and strength. So that's also a good advantage for you. You. There is this doctor, dr Brené Brown, that is an expert of vulnerability and he says vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change. So, in other words, change. So, in other words, when you embrace your pain, right, you have to understand that as soon as you embrace, it's not going to be weaknesses anymore. It's not weaknesses anymore, it is, let's say, a gateway, you know, a window to make you grow.
Speaker 1:Now here are a few actionable ways that you can begin to confront your pain today. Okay, the first one is journaling, and especially journaling with honesty. So write, guys, write without filters. Okay, ask yourself what am I avoiding? What still hurts? What does this pain want me to understand? Okay, then we have therapy or coaching. So sometimes we need a guide, a skilled, professional person who can help you to handle your emotions and shape your story.
Speaker 1:We talked in the previous episode, guys, about how much important it is to ask help. Then we have mindful embodiments. What is mindful embodiments? It's about practices like yoga, you know, breath work, something that reconnects with your body. Okay, because healing is not just intellectual, it's also physical. Then we have the inner child work. So you have to revisit the younger you, who first experienced the damage. Okay, I know, it is difficult, I know that, but that's also very, very important.
Speaker 1:And sharing your story, that's, maybe it's the most difficult things, but whether it's with one person or on a stage right, your voice matters, guys. Unfortunate stories lose its power to shame you the moment you speak it. And finally, we have the community. Healing accelerates where you're surrounded by people who see you, where you're surrounded by people who see you, who support you and remind you that you're not alone, all right. So now, how do we move from pain to power?
Speaker 1:It starts with extreme honesty, of course. You can't heal something if you pretend you have nothing to heal. Of course you can't heal something if you pretend you have nothing to heal, of course. So true maturity begins the moment you stop running and start listening. Okay, when you ask yourself what is this pain trying to teach me? Maybe it's teaching you boundaries. Maybe it's inviting you to slow down, to let it go, you know, to speak it up.
Speaker 1:Whatever the lesson, pain becomes powerful when it's processed with purpose. That means tricky points, sitting with uncomfortable emotions instead of pretending to be tough and rejecting them. So reject these emotions. Number two sharing your story right. Sharing your story with someone safe instead of carrying it alone. And number three, we have seeking growth, not just temporary relief. And here is the truth, guys Vulnerability is strength. It takes courage to open up. I know that To admit you're strangling, it takes a lot of courage, especially to ask for help, but that's where connection begins, right, that's where healing begins. So true maturity is about integration, incorporating your past pain into present wisdom. So it's not about pretending to have it all together. It's not about that. It's about showing up. Okay, show all the scars that you have. In this case, you can also choose to grow naturally, because your pain doesn't disqualify you. It qualifies you to lead to love, to live more deeply.
Speaker 1:Okay, I would like to tell you a story now and in 2012, there was this woman, rihanna mannings I think that was her name it is is her name and faced an unbelievable tragedy. All right, so her one-year-old son, george, suddenly died from pneumonia and influenza and just five days later, overwhelmed by grief, her husband, paul, took his own life and nothing she left to care, you know, for their two surviving children. So Rihanna was in shock, of course, about all this situation. However, you know, with a lot of struggles and so many years, then she, she said that she stand up and really and especially, recognize there is a big gap in terms of support available to families experiencing this kind of loss. So she want to make a difference. To make a difference, she founded Two Wish Upon a Star, a charity, a famous charity dedicated to providing immediate support to families in Galas, where they live, you know, who have lost a child, and young people you know like to end the situation like she couldn't do, and through her effort, the organization guys has impacted over 1,300 individuals, offering them the support and resources she wished had been available to her. So Rian's journey symbolizes the concept of post-traumatic growth, where individuals find new meaning and purpose following profound loss. So, while she continues to navigate her grief. Rian has found joy in life's small moments and today she's married. She has remarried, embodying her resilience and the human capacity to transform pain into a purposeful action. And I think, of course, this is a beautiful story. When I read it I was totally shocked about it.
Speaker 1:Now let's make a recap. What did we do? Today? We have taken a deep dive into the role, uncomfortable but transformative nature of pain. We begin with the truth. Most people avoid the fact that you know pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional when we choose to face it with intention. And then we explore how so many of us respond to pain with avoidance, denial and fear of vulnerability. But when we do that, we create obstacles, obstacles that slow our growth and positive achievements. Okay, then we discover the true maturity.
Speaker 1:Doesn't come from age or titles, of course. It comes from doing the inner work, especially when it comes from pain, guys, from sitting with our damage, you know, with our vows asking what they are here to teach us and choosing growth over comfort. We understood how pain, when processed with purpose, of course, becomes power. And we realize this with a true, real story. So the story of Rihanna Manning's real life transformation. We saw how grief can build purpose, how brokenness can lead to service and how scars can become a sign of strength. At the end, we explore practical ways to begin this journey, guys. So, with these six points so we have honest journaling, therapy or coaching, embodiment practices, you know, like yoga, and so on inner child healing, sharing our stories that's very important and building safe, supportive communities All of these points to one true that pain is not the end of your story.
Speaker 1:Perhaps is the beginning of a deeper one. So if you are listening right now and carrying something heavy, know this, guys you are not weak for heartache. You're human. That's it. You're just a human being, like me, like anyone else in this world, and there is a seed beyond that pain, a seed of power, wisdom and unshakable maturity, just waiting to grow. Okay, you just have to stop running and just go through it. Okay.
Speaker 1:Now I would like to hear from you what is the biggest challenge you have faced that has finally led to your personal growth, guys? How did you face it and what lessons did you take from that experience? Don't hesitate to comment below and share this episode with someone who might need to hear it more than us. While I deeply appreciate the follow as always, sharing this with others who need this is actually what truly makes a difference. Thank you for listening to Journey to Success. Remember every step you take, no matter how small, brings you closer to the person you are meant to become. I'm grateful for each of you guys and I'll see you in the next episode. Cheers.